Saturday, November 1

how would you repond?

"If i say i like you... how would you respond?"

yes. you've seen tat on my previous post,which was my pm for 4 days.

nope. it's NOT directed to a particular person as many believed. haha. it was just a random fun question that i went around asking people, both gals and guys, receiving interesting answers.

collated answers...

GUYS:
"righto. Dunno."
"I would go like erm… okaeeee.. that’s cool. See ya later. Haha. I dunno lah. It’ll just be super awkward"
"I would be like woah. Hahahaha. Shocked dao."
"well you’ve got to wait then coz I’m gonna stay single till at least after jc/army. Studies first. "
"shocked I suppose, seeing as we hardly know each other"
"I would say thanks but no thanks. I think I can like you as a sister but nothing more."

GALS:
"Thanks, I like u too!"
"like real."
"of course. you're my dear what."
"I would tell you to get a sex operation change then come back and tell me"
"er… thanks? (: I like you too!"
"I like you too!"
"I’ll be like.. o…k…"
"sorry. I got spinach liao."
"as a sister in Christ and good friend, I’ll be flattered"
"I’ll be like.. o…k…"
"Happy, especially since we have not met up for a long time
"I love you too! :)"
"huh? -_-"
"I’d ask you if you were bisexual first. Or lesbian. Then I’d consider for about two minutes, respond with ‘okaaaaaaaaaaaay’ and then proceed to give you weird looks"
"if you like me as a friend, then I like you as a friend too!"

haha. so fun. think it was superb weird for all the guys.
the gals.. some was like.. *shudders* (are you alright?! are you les? you go after gals not guys??) - probably what they're thinking...
haha.

doing this 'survey', if you call it tat way, really see how youths of today sees things. many can only see this statement of 'i like you' as one definition... the i like you of a crush. many also felt tat when i put that pm. i was actually addressing to a guy i like. some said they wanted to reply spontaneously, but thought, better not.. thinking i was like seriously serious, and better not disturb kind. there were a few who were like.. "there's something more behind this pm.. TELL MEEE....." haha.

it just shows that youths today sees this statement 'i like you' only in one way. please.. there's other ways of looking at it too. like.. i like you as a friend? i like you as a brother/sister? i like you as a person becoz you have a great character? but surprisingly, or un-surprisingly, people tend to think in only one direction. *shrugs*

there are some though who dun think too deeply into the 'i like you', knowing tat if and when i said that to them, it means i like you as a friend. they're the ones who respond with 'i like you too!" (there's a handful of them, about 5?). they're also usually the ones who knows me for a longer time, who are closer to me, or also those happy easy-going friends of mine who wont think more into it.

haha. but i do know tat some of these responses, the gals, are joking joking ones.. playing along with me. haha.
another interesting observation. guys are more open and direct. they tell you if they dunno. they tell you if they're shocked/awkward. unlike the gals who respond very fast, and some think of creative answers too. haha. the difference btw the guys and the gals.

asked around 25 people. very fun!!! XD

for those who happen to read this and i dint asked you, and you feel like 'replying' too.. do leave a comment. a proper comment for the post.. NOT in the tagboard. haha.

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